自己啓発書を読んでも意味がない

ビジネス

自分を変えたい。お金持ちになって贅沢な暮らしをしたい。
成長して会社のトップになりたい。
学校で成績1になりたい。

と願う人はたくさんいると思います。

そんな中、本屋に行ったりAmazonで本を検索していると、まさに自分にピッタリの本のタイトルを見つけることがあります。

そして、自分を変えるためにその本を買って読み始めます。

でも、ほとんどの人が自分を変えることができません

本記事ではその原因と対策について記述しています。
ちなみにタイトルは正式には、「自己啓発書を読むだけでは変われない」です。

原因

https://www.newsweekjapan.jp/stories/carrier/2020/01/post-92116.php

変われない原因は、本に期待しすぎているから

この本を読み終わったころには、変わっていられるはず。
と、最後まで読むことが目標になってしまっているのです。
そして最後まで読んで満足します。

で、何も変わらない。

目的は「自分を変えること」なのに、「本を読み終えること」になっているのが原因です。

対策

対策は簡単。

本に書いてあることをただ行動にうつすだけ

それだけです。
むしろ最後まで読まなくても、これを実践すれば変われます。

マイクロソフト社の創業者であるビルゲイツは、大の本好きとして知られています。

https://wired.jp/2020/03/14/bill-gates-steps-down-microsoft-board/

ビルゲイツは本を読むとき、メモを取っているそうです。
それは本から学べることはたくさんあり、大事なことは忘れないように、いつでも見れるようにメモをするのです。

つまり、本から何かを学ぶことを目的に読んでいるのです。

同じように本から何かを得ようとする姿勢をもつことが重要です。

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